Embracing the Winter Light: My Guide to Navigating Seasonal Affective Disorder

Hello, lovely readers — I’m The Clarity Coach (that’s me!), and today we’re shining a gentle beam of hope into a topic that tends to hide in the chill of shorter days: Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD).

As we step deeper into autumn and approach the end of the year, November invites us to pause and reflect. The days grow shorter, the air crisper, and life begins to slow down just enough for us to look inward and practice gratitude.

This time of year reminds us of the importance of connection, kindness, and balance—not only with others but also within ourselves. As we prepare for the colder, darker months, prioritising mental wellbeing and emotional resilience becomes even more essential.

If you find yourself dragging a little more when the clocks turn back, feeling low-energy when the nights draw in, or simply noticing your mood and motivation dip as winter sets in, you’re not alone. In fact, the youth charity YoungMinds walks us gently through what SAD is and offers some practical coping strategies.

In this blog I’ll weave those insights with my coaching lens — so you (or the young person you support) can not just survive the season, but find ways to thrive through it.

What is SAD (and why does it matter?)

SAD is more than just “feeling a bit down in the winter”. Affective disorder is very common; it’s not something you hear talked about enough. It is a real symptom that can be very debilitating.  It is similar to depression, except it comes and goes in a seasonal pattern.

These symptoms may show up as:

As a coach who specialises in working with children, young people and adults alike on wellbeing, mindset and emotional health, I want you to know: This is valid. This is real. And you can take steps — even small ones — to feel more yourself again. The key is to start making those small changes before the season fully arrives.

My 5 Compass Points for Wellbeing in the Dark Days

I want to share with you five strategies drawn from YoungMinds’ guidance — reframed with a coaching flavour so you can choose what fits you, personalise it, and build in gentleness rather than pressure.

1.Seek light & movement

“Ten minutes walking with the sun shining on my face and I always feel better.” 
Morning light helps regulate sleep/wake, boosts serotonin and vitamin D. (YoungMinds)

My Clarity twist for you is:

  • Make light and movement a tiny anchor in your day: e.g., open the curtains first thing, or step outside for 5–10 minutes with a hot drink and take a few deep breaths, honing in on your five senses.
  • If you can, schedule a “sun break” — maybe during a walk to the bus stop, or while doing a phone call standing in front of a window or even stepping outside.
  • Notice how your body responds — even small shifts count. Celebrate them.

 

2.Break the morning scrolling habit

This is something that I talk a lot about. Stop scrolling on social media in the mornings (especially first thing as soon as you wake up). For me, by getting up straight away without going on my phone, the day already seems brighter and sets me up for the day.

  • As soon as you wake, give yourself a “tech-pause” zone of 10-15 minutes: no phone, no social scroll.
  • Use that time to set an intention for your day. Ask yourself: “What do I want to feel today? What is one small thing I’ll do to support that?”
  • If you have or work with children or young people, encourage them to set their own morning intention — building agency around how the day starts.

 

3.Journaling to unpack what’s inside

This is one I love! Journaling can be a very powerful and freeing strategy to release the ruminating thoughts that stay stuck in your mind. By writing it down, you take those thoughts that are going around and around in your mind and get them out

  • Choose a time (even 5 minutes works) where you “brain-dump” how you’re feeling: no filters, just flow.
  • Then ask: What’s one gentle action I can take, however small, to care for this part of me today?
  • If you have or are working with children/teens: prompt them with “If my mind were an animal/colour/shape today, what would it be?” and let them draw/write, giving them creative space rather than pressure.

 

4.Build a light, predictable routine

The power of a routine is about creating new habits and being consistent.  Having a routine and planning my days has been an essential part of me when I’m feeling low; sometimes I feel no motivation to do anything, but the routine gives me a purpose.

  • Choose 2 or 3 “non-negotiables” for your winter wellbeing: e.g., make your bed each morning, drink a glass of water, step outside.
  • Use a simple visual – maybe a checklist, or a whiteboard, or a phone reminder that says, “Wellbeing Ritual – tick off”.
  • Encourage children/young people to co-create their routine: what feels manageable for them, rather than what you think they should do.

 

5.Professional support is a strength, not a weakness

I can’t stress how important it is to talk to someone professional. It can make a huge difference – it can change your life and the way you see the world.

  1. If your low mood/energy persists, consider reaching out for counselling or coaching support.
  2. As a coach specialising in emotional wellbeing, I walk beside people through transitions, feelings of overwhelm, or stuck-ness — it’s not about “fixing” you, it’s about supporting you to uncover your resilience and tools.
  3. For young people: validate that reaching out is brave, and help them find a trusted adult, school counsellor or youth service they feel safe with

A Gentle Invitation

You don’t have to do them all. If you pick just one of the strategies above and give it a go this week, you’ve taken a step forward to bettering your mental wellbeing. That step might feel small — but in the dark months, small steps accumulate. As they say, ‘Rome wasn’t built in a day’.

Here’s a mini checklist reminder for you to copy, tweak, and use:

The Pain Points Many Families Face

If any of these resonate with you, you’re not alone—and it’s exactly why conversations around children’s mental health and wellbeing are so important.

My Final Words for you

Winter can feel long, the nights can feel heavy, and motivation can dip. And yet — within that gentle hush of slower days, there is space. Space to pause. Space to notice how you feel. Space to be kind to yourself.

You are not alone. You are worthy of the light, even when it feels dim. And you can take steps — small, meaningful steps — towards feeling more like yourself again.

If you’d like support with building a winter wellbeing routine, coaching for emotional resilience, or programmes for children/young people around transitions, body image, or self-worth — I’m here. Let’s walk the path together.

Work With Me – The Clarity Coach

Supporting children and young people to build resilience, manage stress and anxiety, and thrive emotionally doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. With the right guidance, small changes can have a big impact.

As The Clarity Coach, I work with children, families, and schools to provide practical strategies, tailored coaching, and safe spaces for growth.

✨ If you’d like support in helping your child (or your school community) manage stress and anxiety more effectively, let’s connect. Together, we can give young people the tools they need to navigate challenges with confidence and clarity.

📩 Get in touch today to explore how I can support you. Click here to book a call

Author: Zeenat Noorani – The Clarity Coach | Co-founder & Director, Let’s Talk Better CIC

Clarity, Creates, Confidence & Courage. Conversations that matter ~ One Talk at a time ~

💛 Where to find support if You Need to Talk…

Remember: If your mood is severely impacting your day-to-day, please consider talking to a mental health professional — you deserve support.

📞 Samaritans

  • Call: 116 123 (free, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year)
  • Website: www.samaritans.org
  • For anyone feeling distressed, overwhelmed, or needing a safe space to talk.

💬 Shout

  • Text: 85258 (24/7 free and confidential text service)
  • Website: www.giveusashout.org
  • For anyone in crisis who prefers to text rather than talk.

 

🧡 Mind Infoline

  • Call: 0300 123 3393 (Mon–Fri, 9am–6pm)
  • Text: 86463
  • Website: www.mind.org.uk
  • Offers information and signposting for anyone experiencing a mental health problem.

 

💛 YoungMinds Textline (for young people)

  • Text: YM to 85258 (24/7)
  • Website: www.youngminds.org.uk
  • Free, confidential support for young people struggling with their mental health.

 

💬 Childline (for under-19s)

  • Call: 0800 1111 (free, 24/7)
  • Website: www.childline.org.uk
  • Provides a safe space to talk about anything, big or small — via phone, chat, or email.

 

🩵 The Mix (for ages 11–25)

  • Call: 0808 808 4994 (3pm–midnight daily)
  • Text: THEMIX to 85258
  • Website: www.themix.org.uk
  • Offers support for young people around mental health, relationships, and more.

 

🌈 For urgent help (if you or someone else is in danger):
Call 999 or go to your nearest A&E.